Photographers?? Are you ready for a unique challenge that will test your abilities? Here is a challenge just for you!
"As a 27 year old mother of 2, my life was just about perfect. My husband loved me, my kids were crazy yet adorable, I felt completely balanced spiritually, and I absolutely loved my job as a photographer. But there was one thing that just wasn't right. I didn't love me. Almost every day I would look in the mirror and pick out something wrong and complain about it. My daughter was only 6 months old and I'm just not one of those moms whose body seems to suck right back together like a slinky a few weeks after giving birth. I didn't recognize the woman I was looking at anymore. My body had changed. I had stretch marks. My hair was falling out. It seemed like I was hoping to walk past the mirror and see my 18 year old athletic body surprise me somehow. I didn't think I needed an intervention, until the intervention found me. Oh I'm so glad it did.
A local photographer and I had an idea to shoot some head shots of each other to use on our websites and give to our husbands. At first, I brushed it off and didn't really get too excited about the idea. Me? Getting in front of the camera? However, the more I prepared and planned for the session, the more I got into it. I went shopping, made hair and make-up appointments, and tried on my clothes at least ten times. I was getting so excited! My husband was cheering me on, and was so supportive. The day of our shoot was one of the best days I had for myself in such a long time. After I had spent hours getting ready, I took a deep breath and looked in the mirror. I felt beautiful. The shoot was amazing and we got some incredible photos of each other. When I looked at the final photos of myself, something changed. I loved them. I actually loved a photo of me! The same post-partum mother really looked beautiful.
[Photo's of Mandi taken by Camilla Binks] |
This experience lit a bonfire inside me. I wanted everyone to feel the way I did and still do. After this experience, I literally threw away my insecurities. I realized that I can get all dolled up, or stay in my sweats for days and still be me - A beautiful woman. It felt so wonderful to spend real, quality time on myself. Even though I had more makeup and hairspray on my head than I have ever had before, I could honestly say the way I look on the outside doesn't define who I am. I am me, and I will always be beautiful no matter what. I really needed this reminder, and every time I look at my photos, I'm flooded with these emotions all over again. My husband quickly had me order a print of his favorite photo and was so excited to put it on his desk at work. My complaining literally stopped and I really was so happy to be me. I also began to take care of myself better. I'm eating better, exercising and gaining even more self confidence than I have ever had before.
I had such a strong desire to share this feeling with my clients and also implement my transformation into my business. Personally, I felt absolutely qualified to help adults raise their self esteem. After receiving my degree in health education, I worked for 3 years as a high school health teacher, and sometimes it seemed that I spent more time counseling my students than really teaching curriculum. I knew that if I could raise the self esteem and self image in teenage kids, I could definitely help adults. In addition to my own experiences and education, I sought the counsel of psychologists, body image therapists, marriage and family counselors, and doctors to help me compile the best possible homework for the clients.
After insane amounts of time of planning, studying, designing and marketing, I introduced to my clients what I have come to call my Beauty Campaign. Anyone can and should have a beautiful photo of themselves.
More information regarding Mandi's Beauty Campaign can be found here.
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**If you decide to take on this challenge, we invite you to share your masterpieces with us! Yes, even if you're a male photographer! We'd also love to hear from you in our comments section- Just to see how many of us are willing to put ourselves out there.
We will be posting the images that you take of each other in the November issue! Please share this challenge with your other photographer friends and lets have some fun!!
Please send your favorite image to bryceandcindy@hotmail.com, and are due any time before October 31st. Please label your picture so we know who you are! And as always, list the name of your photographer!
We will be posting the images that you take of each other in the November issue! Please share this challenge with your other photographer friends and lets have some fun!!
Please send your favorite image to bryceandcindy@hotmail.com, and are due any time before October 31st. Please label your picture so we know who you are! And as always, list the name of your photographer!
3 comments:
The funny thing is that a week or 2 ago, I had the same idea! I was thinking I should announce on facebook a girls night out or something saying I'll take shots like this for friends. Let them get all dressed and done up. Then I saw the photos Camilla Binks took and now this post and I'm even more excited! :)
Wonderful Cherie! Can't wait for you to share with us!
Cool idea. Some good pics there too! =D
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